Dr. Shalini Kapoor Kad
July 15, 2010
A homoeopathic paediatrician, a counselling expert and a freelance writer are a few words to describe my profession. My sole aim is to put forth practical piece of information that guides every one right in the direction, blending the medicos to a layman with a simple gesture to make the medical things a little less convoluted and comprehendible.
Love making for sure is an art and those who treat it right will never find it difficult to practice and enjoy. It isn’t a simple procedure of penetration, ejaculation and withdrawal it is much more to feel. The vibes generated within the process enact deeply on all spheres. Whether it is a man or a woman both have to meet expectations from the same and in order to do so a regulated method has to be adopted. Technically foreplay is the word for the channelized propagation, though seemingly simple is the trickiest part of all. This is the one that makes all the difference between love making and a formality.
A man and a woman both should understand each other’s sexual needs and requirements to keep away any hesitation or frustration within. For years it is a known fact that sex is a relaxation fro mind and body uniting two lives in one but this saying can only be brought into practice when one gives enough grounds to each other. Just being married and getting physically involved is not enough. There may be instances where a couple may be married having kids but have never felt what they desired.
Foreplay is essential and should never be neglected. Till the stimulation is enough nor the mind and neither the body will work in synch. It is vital to prepare for sex without foreplay it is like baking a cake in a cold oven. The aura should be such making both partners asking for more and more. A famous verse in similar context reveal the agony “One thing I’ve learned in all these years is not to make love when you really don’t feel it; there’s probably nothing worse you can do to yourself than that.”
The process let a couple loose all inhibition and surrender to the one they love. It surfaces you inner most desires and deeds to reality. Sidelining the fact can be hazardous. It is essential as is the sex. Initial phases of kissing and humping enhance on the stimulating hormones casing erection in males and presenting in form of vaginal lubrication along with cervical lengthening in females.
Foreplay does begin on the intimate talks where the two individuals are not touching each other but directly or indirectly are indicating the same. Further is the stage of touching which can be gentle with a mere hug or holding hands followed immediately with kissing or smooching. The last two phases sometimes may be interwoven so close that it is difficult to demarcate. The humping stage is the direct manipulation of the reproductive organs giving a kick to the entire proceedings and moving straight towards the intercourse. As the humping becomes intense the stimulation too intensifies and is on its peak just before the penetration. Foreplay is not just restricted till the intercourse it may even run parallel as accepted by both partners.
We humans are blessed with minds to think and work, so never let you force intimacy. Just feel it and let your partner too feel the