Dr. Shalini Kapoor Kad
Oct. 29, 2010
A homoeopathic paediatrician, a counselling expert and a freelance writer are a few words to describe my profession. My sole aim is to put forth practical piece of information that guides every one right in the direction, blending the medicos to a layman with a simple gesture to make the medical things a little less convoluted and comprehendible.
Sex is a dual tool, if applied wisely can make two souls one for ever and if adopted harsh can make things sour and even repulsive. Sex is kind of a new discovery for the teenage when the early adults just to satisfy their curiosities often indulge in the above, here it has nothing to bind or attach just infatuation that soon subsides with age. The following write is majorly for couples who can make it a happening part by using it apt and wise. Sex is an act to enjoy togetherness and gift to mankind to let discover your partner till extremes. Utilise sex for good and not just to satisfy.
Never make sex a burden
A sex acted just to satisfy can help for a while but in long run a couple not attached to each other may find it as a burden to perform. More than physical attraction it is the mutual love that attracts one towards sex, physicals can pull for the first time but the next time till one feels inherently ready till then nothing can be fetched.
Difference of opinions would be always there, no two individuals can think alike and so are husband and wife. Do talk over your issues, keeping mute; ignoring each other will only ruin things. Discuss all your issues and bring in the cosy feel. Till a partner feels free enough to talk and let off till then a true bound can’t be established. Communication help express your feelings and let loose ones inhibitions slowly and steadily. Just try understanding each other and seeing how sex draws you in.
Never to have the same monotony every time, this can turn things boring for both, sprinkle in some spice to keep both on their toes. Newer ways of foreplay, positions and sex can make all the difference. Experiment to the weirdest and let the ugly turn things beautiful for you. Let loose and don’t hesitate to try new things. A couple should accept the frankness of a relationship and feel free to adopt almost anything. Try it out and this will drag you more and more. Simply if just the process would have been enough then why would people spend loads on sex toys, dildos and night wears.
Make time for love
Often couples in the race of life and responsibilities sideline their basic necessity of sex. Don’t let your professional job come in between your bed / love life. Do keep a check on the sex frequency, don’t let months pass by without it.
Here the talks are not just limited to the intercourse level, sex begins quite soon. Sometimes even a couple may just feel satisfied with a few hugs and kisses to satisfy. Make sex an anchor for your partner and a step to show that yes you will be there in all thick and thin to support each time. Use the sex tool to bring yourself close and never let it act negative on your relations.